scopophilia: from the greek "love of looking," is deriving pleasure from looking. an expression of sexuality, it refers to sexual pleasure derived from looking at erotic objects, including naked bodies and body parts. check out the eyes in these pictures and in previous posts, especially check out sebastian ritz on my january 13th post! 
some tops want to be gazed at with desire and longing, especially if the scene is romantic. sometimes the bottom is blindfolded, the better to be "used." sometimes the bottom is tied up to be better played with and observed. i don't think there is any one "correct" thing to do with your eyes during oral sex, except to be aware that they are powerful tools of sexual communication. sometimes i enjoy my bottoms looking admiringly at my chest or abs or cock while their hands brush over my nipples or caress my balls--in this case enjoying the gaze of the bottom, enjoying being objectified even. 
sometimes i just want to disengage the eyes by blindfolding the bottom, tying his arms behind his back, and taking him for a ride. and sometimes i've been the one tied up, sometimes blindfolded, and serviced. the options are limited only by your imagination. just remember that the eyes are powerful tools that can do a lot of good work for you.
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