samuel delaney and "contact": the magical and surprising twists of an online hookup

i'm posting one of the hottest short vids i've seen in a while.  the video starts out looking like a pretty conventional blowjob video--a (married? he's wearing a ring... straight but curious?) guy steps out of work to get a quick bj in the woods--but it takes some surprising erotic turns that really ramp up the heat.  samuel delaney (pictured at left) in his fascinating book "times square red, times square blue" calls what we see here "contact"--the surprising contacts or connections that one makes in anonymous and public erotic encounters that mix race and class, that mess up the conventional rules of attraction and the way that desire is usually so highly disciplined in our society.   it is the very unexpected outcome of these encounters that can make them so fun and magical.  these anonymous encounters create totally unexpected bonds of friendship and even romance between men who are so different that their paths wouldn't cross in normal bourgeois living patterns.  "contact" is all about the spontaneous, the public, the anonymous--and the wonderful surprises (in the form of other human beings!) that the world of public, anonymous erotic encounter holds for those who open up to it.  in "times square red, times square blue" delaney not only describes contact, he is a shameless and passionate advocate.  for this reason the blog names samuel delaney its first "blog hero!"

in honor of delaney, the blog's first hero, watch the video and get hard: 

Click here for More Free Porn Movies

another five-woof cocksucker!

here's a bottom who knows how to dive onto cock and clearly relishes it.  and it's a fat, long banana that he yawns his way deep onto all the way to the pubes.  tripple woof!  the public setting (clearly visible from neighbors' windows) gives the scene an added edge.  this five-woof cocksucker never really struggles--he makes it look so simple--but he does fumble to stuff the monster into his face at one point, and he gets a reward for his struggle--a real mouthful. those who love cumshots in the mouth will love this one. enjoy!

Click here for More Free Porn Movies

huffpost's 11 most-surprisingly banned books

the merriam webster dictionary was banned in a california school for having a definition of oral sex! read about it here.

in an ideal world

times square as it might be in an alternative universe--more like it was--sex everywhere--less like it was--sex reduced to spectacle, to vicarious enjoyment, to the purient and representational. i want to see that big cock being sucked on the subway car next to me, or in the subway restroom, or in the showers or steam room of my gym--the way things used to be. i'd even settle for it on a billboard.

i moved to nyc in the mid-90s, when times square was just beginning to be killed off by giuliani and his corporate titans. the place had a pulse, a vibe. the prostitutes on 8th avenue used to proposition me as i'd walk by at 1 or 2 or 3 in the morning, returning from my carousing. i'd say: "babes, if you don't know a gay guy when you see one, you're in the wrong profession." 

this used to be a city where sex wasn't completely privatized and forced into the bedroom or locked up behind seedy doors. new york was an adult space. it's fun to fantasize what the world would look like if the binary that imprisons sex in the private and runs it out of the public space would fall apart. why is it okay to eat in public but not to masturbate or have sex? they are both fulfilling human drives.



europeans think nothing of seeing naked breasts in public. what if we thought nothing of seeing a hard cock in public? ...being sucked? ...fucking? woof! would people stop to look as they do in some of these pics? or would they look away bored, or even walk on by, as they do in other pics here? perhaps both. perhaps it'd depend on who was "doing it." one thing's for sure: the world would be a whole lot more fun and interesting.

straight men who have sex with men

this from the village voice...a little dated...but worth adding to the archive.

Straight Men Who Have Sex With Men
Inside the secret world of the straight guise
By Tristan Taormino

Once again, a female singer has a hit song called "I Kissed A Girl"; I saw Katy Perry perform it on network television the other night. As she danced around in her cute yellow dress, I thought: "Wow, singing about lesbian smooching was pretty racy when Jill Sobule did it—same title and subject, different and better song—in 1995 on MTV." Now it's ready for prime time? Well, it's been almost 15 years. Plus, the whole idea isn't that threatening anymore. If a straight woman confesses she's messed around with another woman—even had full-blown sex with her—most people are quick to shrug it off. She was drunk. She's experimenting. At most, maybe this means she's bi-curious. But it's no big deal. Women have a lot more leeway to explore their sexuality with other women without questioning their orientation or setting any alarms off.

On the other hand, society doesn't make room for men to do the same. Can you imagine the flip side of this scenario? No, I don't mean Bon Jovi topping the charts with a new rock anthem called "I Made Out With a Guy." Let's say one of your male friends confesses: "I was at the club last night with Bob. The music was pounding, I had a few shots, and his hair just looked so good, so we made out, and I jerked him off in the bathroom." For most people, there's really only one response: "Dude, you're gay." Maybe, but maybe not. According to the Centers for Disease Control, more than three million men who self-identify as straight secretly have sex with other men. Although there's been some mainstream dialogue about African-American men who have sex with men "on the down-low," there hasn't been much talk about white guys who do it. And there are plenty of them out there. Take a brief scroll through one day's worth of "Men Seeking Men" posts on New York City's Craigslist, and you'll find dozens of listings like "Str8 Guy Needs Great Cocksucker" or "Handsome Masculine Married Irish Guy Seeks One or Two Hung Married Irish Buddies Who Want Head and Maybe More." From the super-brief to the incredibly detailed, some posts offer interesting explanations: Though I have always been hetero, I also have had a fantasy to anonymously suck cock and swallow his cum.
I am a married white male forty-six, six-one, one-ninety—a goodlooking, successful, Ivy-educated guy who finds himself in town alone this week. Not interested in changing my life in any major way, but do feel the occasional need to deal with this side of my nature.

I am married . . . looking to provide no reciprocation needed or wanted oral service for VERY masculine, verbal straight/bi/straight acting men. My clothes do not even have to come off. This is about YOUR pleasure . . . not mine.

These examples articulate some of the reasons why heterosexual men get it on with other men: for anonymous, no-strings-attached sex; to explore homoerotic desire without a gay identity or relationship; or to fulfill a fantasy, including one of dominance and submission.


"When these straight men have sex with other men, it is not about an attraction to the other man—it is about an attraction to the sex act," says Joe Kort (joekort.com), a licensed therapist in Michigan. "When asked about what they enjoy, it is never the actual man, but instead his body parts, the sexual behavior they engage in." Many of Kort's clients (who are overwhelmingly white) are straight men who have sex with other men (SMSM). He's even created Straight Guise (straightguise.com), a website dedicated to the subject. He cites dozens of explanations for SMSM behavior: "Some have been sexually abused and are compulsively re-enacting childhood sexual trauma by male perpetrators; some have sex with men because it's easier and requires fewer social skills than those required to have sex with women; some are 'gay for pay'; some like the attention they receive from other men; some like anal sex, which they're otherwise too ashamed to talk about or engage in with their female partners." He acknowledges that some of these men may be bisexual or closeted gay men, but in his experience in treating clients over an extended period, many of them are not. He believes that when it comes to sex, identity and orientation, preferences, fantasies, and behavior do not always neatly line up in one category. More often, they are complex and even contradictory.




Mike, whom I found on a personals website, is 44, married, and works on Wall Street. He has been having sex with men for four years, and says he likes the closeness and the male bonding. Plus, "It's just less complicated than with women. We're both there for sex, and that's it." John, 35, also works in finance, identifies as straight, and is dating several women. But he mostly enjoys getting blowjobs from men: "There are less emotional complications for me. Many men will do things some women will not, and many men give better oral sex. I think men will exercise their hunger for sex and not deny that they are horny more so than women. They feel comfortable sexually bonding." Both men admit that their female partners don't know about their behavior; in fact, their families and friends don't know.


Unlike some psychology professionals who want to pathologize these men, treat them for sexual addiction, or "cure them" of homosexuality, Kort approaches his clients without an agenda. He also unpacks some of the cultural baggage that contributes to this phenomenon: "They are interested in the sexual contact with other men. They are working through issues of father hunger, lack of touch from other males, and the need for contact with other men on deeper levels that women enjoy with each other and men do not. Some of these men tell me they meet other men and really just want to be held and talk to the other men, but that the men they meet want it to be sexual, so they go through with it but really don't want to. Ironically, since men are not allowed to touch—except for a pat on the butt in sports—they use the sexual realm to find ways to touch each other and receive touch."

superheroes need blowjobs too!

superheroes and vampires and science fiction adventurers populated the mythic imaginary of our childhoods. for the most part, however, we tend to remember those spaces as free from sex. we never got to see robin give batman a blowjob in the front seat of the batmobile, even though we knew, at some level, that he was doing just that, at least when alfred pennyworth wasn't. sex was limited to the implied, as when stoker's count dracula chases away the female vampires about to seduce and suck jonathan harker: “how dare you touch him, any of you?” the count bellowed in fury and rage and with “cheeks blazing red with passion”: “how dare you cast eyes on him when I had forbidden it? back, I tell you all! this man belongs to me!”


it wasn’t really until the advent of pay cable television channels like hbo and showtime that sex became an overt feature of the representation of everyday life in some mainstream american media. sex is still marginalized and considered inappropriate in public spaces--especially if it isn’t heterosexual, romantic, and monogamous. janet jackson’s infamous “wardrobe malfunction” and its limitless potential to warp and corrupt the minds of america’s innocent sunday-school children is perhaps the most pressing example. calvin klein’s ability to shock supposedly cosmopolitan new yorker’s with this saucy billboard is another:


i think this is one reason why i find the work of herodotus so refreshing. as a child, i watched batman and robin get tied up and placed in the giant tea cup together, boiling water preparing to shower down upon them if they didn’t make a rapid escape. every sexual recess of my eight-year-old psyche was activated by that scene of man-to-man bondage and rubber/leather/lycra/belted bulging-muscles-and-tented-crotch eroticism. herodotus reverses an injustice, shamelessly and unapologetically placing overt man-on-man sexuality into the myths we all grew up with--changing them into the kind of myths we SHOULD have grown up with. he’s a breath of fresh air! enjoy him!

if you'd like to see more of herodotus, click here. click on any of the pictures to get a larger image.