in praise of olive oil: redux

i want to return today to discuss the miracle of olive oil for oral sex.  olive oil has become one of my tricks of the trade, and until you've tried it, i don't think you can appreciate how good it does what it does.  and i don't mean dress salads!

good oral sex requires a lot of saliva.  the best cocksuckers generate a ton of it, and it can get messy.  sloppy, wet saliva also feels so good when someone takes it and rubs it all over your balls and uses it to lubricate their caresses while your cock is down their throat! tops disagree about this--some want your hands on the shaft, but i'm a balls guy--i want my cock deep in your throat and your hands--both of them, ideally--on my balls.  one of my regular favorites calls it the "worshiping master" position.  i like that.  and hands shouldn't just hover there stationary, they need to caress and explore, fondle, and pull/tug gently.

people generate different amounts of saliva in their mouths.  and i suspect that we generate less as we age.  and some people have conditions in which their mouths generate less and less.  a dry mouth can even be dangerous for the teeth and gums.  it's also hard to keep the saliva generation going on for extended play.  there is an answer to these problems and it comes from the land of jesus, miracles, and hot men--olive oil!

several weeks ago i was with a newcomer to the trade.  he wanted to learn how to deepthroat and i was his instructor.  my cock kept hitting the back of his throat and meeting stiff (& dry-feeling) resistance--a rock meeting a hard place, if you will.  i whipped out my bottle of olive oil, lubed my cock up generously, slid it in and out a few times to lube up his throat, and my cock slid almost effortlessly right down into his deep throat.  shocked the shit out of him.  but he loved it.  a first for him! a real treat for me! i suspect that a good lubed throat that effortlessly allows the cock to pass deep inside helps overcome the gag reflex as well.

additional benefits of olive oil:  it tastes good.  certainly better than lube.  and for the top, i think it's the perfect viscosity, especially when mixed with saliva and the soft inner tissue of an eager bottom's mouth and throat. and it feels pretty fucking wonderful on the balls as well. stock up for your next session!

tom deflowers a virgin cocksucker

this is me in action. not today's action, but it's me...

several days ago i got a phone call from a fellow planning to visit new york who said that he'd never sucked cock before, but he wanted to experience it. he was wondering if i would take on a beginner.  most of all, he said, he wanted to learn to deepthroat. 

a widower, he'd only recently discovered this desire, this side of his sexuality.  and that desire had lead him ultimately to my blog.  of course i said yes; this was my ideal job presenting itself.  i eagerly agreed to meet up!

we talked a little when he arrived, and then i sat him on a stool, stood over him, and pressed his face into my crotch.  he undid my belt and jeans button and pulled open my fly.  i told him that i liked the feel of his hot, moist breath working its way through the cloth of my underwear and that it's a great way to make a guy good and hard; it's a great appetizer for the main course that's to follow.

after letting him steam me up for a little and get me growing, i reached down and slowly pulled my jeans and black calvin's down, revealing my pubes and the top of the shaft and then, inch by inch, slowly letting him see the whole thing, as it sprang out of the constricting underwear.  

i'm never sure whether to believe someone when they tell me it's their first time, but this guy seemed pretty straight-forward.  he also seemed sufficiently excited, anxious, eager, and out of his element.  he took me in his mouth immediately and tried to take me all the way, for instance.  i wasn't hard enough yet to go there, nor was he ready to take me.

so i told him to go easy and relax, we had plenty of time.  it was exciting for me to know that this "student" of mine had read my blog and was between my legs, eager to try things he'd read about, releasing desires he'd only dreamed about, and wanting to learn from me and from the situation.  he told me he'd found saytr films' "ream his straight throat" online and had been watching it.

it didn't take me long to spring into full hardness, and he was eager to experience it all the way down his throat--just as he'd said he would be.  he kept trying to force it deeper and deeper and the back of his throat kept me tightly locked out.

so following a tip from one of my buds mentioned earlier--the post about olive oil--i pulled out the natural miracle juice, poured it all over my cock, and slid my hard salami down over his tongue, back and forth a little knocking at the entrance of this throat, stood up to adjust the angle a litte, and sunk it home, deep into the back of his throat.

he liked it, much to my surprise, although it took the wind out of him. he was surprised to discover that he couldn't breathe with the cock down his throat.  he was an eager sucker, however, and was quick to dive back on my cock.  and for the rest of the time we were together, my cock was either down his throat or he was catching his breath, or his tongue was up my ass--he was surprised to find that he liked that.  grrr!

i took him into my bedroom and put him in the supine position on my bed.  my cock slid right down deep into his throat.  i've read that this position is sometimes easier for beginners.  and while that has not been my experience in the past, it was today.  he wanted me to cum in him, but wasn't sure if he wanted me deep down his throat or to come in his mouth. he was also a little concerned about hiv, so i carefully explained the levels of risk and my negative status. he wanted to go ahead.  i suggested it might be easier if deeper, and he agreed.  so i stroked to the edge, told him to get ready for some facefucking, sunk my cock deep into the back of this throat, and fucked him until i blasted deep down his throat.

he's coming back monday for another session.  i think we're both looking forward to it.

the joy of olive oil

one of the best deep-throat artists i've ever been with sent me the following advice:

when I'm going to be deep-throating a cock I pour a few drops of olive oil on the tip of a dildo and slide it deep enough to coat the back of my throat so the top's dickhead will slide more easily through the tight spot where gagging might otherwise occur.  another tip is more of a process:  opera singers strive to sing with a "lifted" soft palate in order to add the overtones that enable their voices to soar over an orchestra, this position is learned by isolating the stretched feeling in the mouth of "top of a yawn" while breathing out - this will help the devoted cocksucker to take a long thin dildo deep into the throat and learn to breathe around it...with enough practice even thicker cocks can be held deep while nuzzling the top's pubes, or tonguing his balls or even sucking his balls into one's mouth while his hard cock is totally engulfed.   swallowing motions in the throat will massage the top's dickhead, and deep guttural moaning/groaning sounds will not only convey the cocksuckers passion but will add pleasant vibrations to the top's dick - this should be de rigeur if the cocksucker is rewarded with a pissing dick down his throat.  ( i tend not to think of master/slave as i do not need an overt "show" - leather, dominance, etc - just the presence of a one-in-a-million stud with a big dick, a hot bod and an always-smoldering libido - he's going to get whatever he wants because he's special - we both know it - it is up to the bottom to do his utmost...if not, others will.)"

i've been experimenting with olive oil and it works really well.  i think it helps lubricate the bottom's tissues and makes it less irritating when my cock slides into the softness of the deepest part of the throat.