the gag reflex is a product of the body's psychological AND physiological responses, so it can be a bit of a challenge to overcome. learning to control the gag reflex is a skill that can be worked on. you can improve. so if you're a beginner and you are afraid, that's okay. just know that you can always get better. even within a single session, if you are patient with yourself, you can improve as you relax, take your time, stay non-judgmental with yourself, and understand that what you are undertaking is not easy for everyone in the beginning. in this way it's not a whole lot different from learning to get fucked--you need to learn to relax certain muscles before it can be pleasurable.
suggestion #1: remember to breathe. denying your body the air it needs will only cause you to tense up and become anxious. the best cocksuckers are able to breathe around the cock or through their nostrils even when dick is lodged deep in their throat--and this is primarily about relaxation. that's a level of expertise that is pretty rare, in my experience, but it is out there. woof! work it, cocksucker!
suggestion #2: practice on a dildo or penis-sized vegetable and learn to work with your gag reflex. practice does make perfect!
suggestion #3: take things bit by bit and have confidence! know that your body will relax onto and around him.
suggestion #4: experiment. some angles are easier for some people and more difficult for others. the angle that works best can also be a factor of the shape and curvature of your partner's cock.
suggestion #5: get in touch with your own arousal. it works wonders to help decrease the gag reflex!
i will write more about this in future posts. i also want to invite readers to share suggestions--please write to me if you have ideas that should be added here!
This is a great post! Thanks very much for the information! I especially like the idea of practicing on a dildo. I also recently got a tongue brush to brush my tongue with, and every morning I use it deeper and deeper, in an effort to reduce my gag reflex somewhat. It seems to be helping somewhat.
ReplyDelete2 pic - that man is taking it DEEP. I bet he can get those balls in his mouth too.... take him all deep dude
ReplyDeleteGreat pics and tips, i have always gagged and most of the men that use my mouth like knowing that they are making it hard for me :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for the tips. I really needed this heading into my big Super Bowl Party!
ReplyDeleteI really like the advice. You need a core of pure desire combined with a relaxation of the body. Too much excitement overstimulates a cocksucker and leads to choking (pun intended). The only thing that never worked for me was trying to deep throat a dildo or vegetable. The worship of Cock is not the worship of dildos or vegetables. I choke on simulacrums. I swallow the real thing. Motivation is key. Guys need to practice on real dicks.
ReplyDeleteRegarding the olive oil. I have been using olive oil for more than 10 years for lubrication in my cock and my ass and also for full body massage. It is just amazing as it tastes great and feels so sexy when sucking (specially)very large and long cocks and receiving a huge cock up my well lubricated ass (olive oil only)Thank for all the experiences you share with us. As a dedicated disciple of THE LORD GOD PENIS, I salute you and admire you!
ReplyDeleteI'm new to this group but am enjoying reading your posts! I've always been a serious cockhound but only recently have I learned to master my gag reflex. I never thought I would but now that I have it's really amazing how amazing it feels! I want to add that it helps to have a patient top to work with. While I love a good face-fucking, you need to take it slow, at least in the beginning when you're learning how to handle your reflex. Now when I feel a cock slide past the back of my throat, it practically puts me in a "zen" like state. It's fantastic!
ReplyDeleteA careful patient top can have the oral even take his balls-I've done it takes just a little practice.
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