there's a very natural connection between oral sex and bondage, and it's a theme this blog will explore in more detail in the future. i'll also be writing about power and sex, the play with power that is always a part of any sexual encounter.
some folks assume that sex is "supposed" to be about equality, that it's supposed to be reciprocal in the sense that power relations remain balanced. is that ever the case when one man gets on his knees in front of another? power is always being played with and negotiated in sex. sometimes it's just more obvious. and sometimes it's just more fun. the fun begins with the frank acknowledgment that power is always implicated in sexual adventure.
bondage complicates things, it adds a whole new dimension to the play with power that is a part of every sexual encounter. it can change around and mix up these dynamics in unexpected and titilating ways. if i tie you up and top you, taking both of your holes for my pleasure, it's clear that i'm the alpha top having my way. but what if you tie me up and blow me. who is the top? who is the bottom?
there's a very natural connection between oral sex and bondage, and it's a theme this blog will explore in more detail in the future. i'll also be writing about power and sex, the play with power that is always a part of any sexual encounter.
some folks assume that sex is "supposed" to be about equality, that it's supposed to be reciprocal in the sense that power relations remain balanced. is that ever the case when one man gets on his knees in front of another? power is always being played with and negotiated in sex. sometimes it's just more obvious. and sometimes it's just more fun. the fun begins with the frank acknowledgment that power is always implicated in sexual adventure.
bondage complicates things, it adds a whole new dimension to the play with power that is a part of every sexual encounter. it can change around and mix up these dynamics in unexpected and titilating ways. if i tie you up and top you, taking both of your holes for my pleasure, it's clear that i'm the alpha top having my way. but what if you tie me up and blow me. who is the top? who is the bottom?
What a question! The guy who's blowing has all the power. There is no position in which a man is more vulnerable than when he has another guy's teeth wrapped around his cock.
ReplyDeletethanks guys. supplicant...i love the way power can seem elusive and slip back and forth between the partners. the top thinks he's in charge and the bottom thinks the same.
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