beginners' guide: rule #1

for the beginner:  cocksucking is a skill and an art, a skill that you can work at and master, an art that you can perfect.  the first thing to remember is that you are there to please your top, and what you are doing can bring him incredible pleasure, so tune in carefully to the messages you are getting from him and let his moans and gasps be your first and most important guide.  here are a few tips to help:

a man’s cock may become very hard, but it remains a delicate instrument.  always be careful with your teeth.  never bite or scrape the cock you are servicing; teeth never feel good.

the lips and tongue, saliva and warm breath are the primary sources of stimulation, but don’t forget your hands.  your top’s balls are very sensitive and respond to gentle tugging, caressing, and fondling--especially if they are shaved (something many men do to enhance the sensitivity of the skin there) and/or your hands are covered in saliva or lube.  other sensual areas include the skin between the ass and the balls, the area around the balls, the skin beneath the pubic hair (perfect for fingernails!), and the ass itself (a good place to put your thumb).  a good bottom’s tongue and hands get to know and explore all of these spaces. 

while you are down on cock, you can suck, blow, lick, and swallow.  if you can’t fit the entire penis into your mouth, you may grasp the remaining portion in your hand by making a circle with the thumb and fingers to simulate an orifice.  remember:  rule number one is to pay attention to the reaction you are getting from the top whose penis you are servicing.  your hand or hands can be exploring other areas of your top--his balls, his ass, and the space in-between.  if you are sucking on his balls or licking his ass, your hands can be stroking his cock.  some tops like you to place a finger gently on the anus.  you can also apply pressure to the area between ass and balls, massaging the shaft that can be felt there under the skin.

every man’s penis is different and has its own sensitive spots and preferred way of being handled.  i have watched the way hundreds of different men masturbate, and seldom have i seen two who do it the same way.  every penis is unique, and each responds differently to stimulation.  so listen to your top, the sounds and movements and groans and gasps he makes; these are the first and best clues you have to how well you are servicing.